Monday, September 3, 2012

Start of School

Well, the new school year is in full swing now and so I thought it would be good to give an update on the Hamers adjusting to school.  First, as some of you know Dennis is a bus driver so when the kids go back so does he.  That means I have to take at least one of the daycare stops (usually morning drop-off).  I have to admit it's been nice not having to worry about this over the summer as I got use to getting to work sometime as early as 7:15!  So far things are going okay with drop off.  There's been a few tense mornings as we run around making sure we have everything in the backpacks, etc but for the most part we are doing pretty well getting the day started. 

Now an update on the kids.  Katelyn is a 1st grader this year and has adjusted well to the start of school year.  She seems to really enjoy learning and is doing well about going to bed early again.  So far no 1st grade homework.  I know why am I worried about that!  Well, I am primarily in charge of the educational aspects of our children's lives.  Therefore, if there's homework to be done -- Mom needs to make sure it's done and with our busy schedule that can sometimes be a challenge.  Katelyn has also started soccer this year and so far seems to really enjoy it.  Here first game is later this week and it will be interesting to see how that goes!!  We have decided to forego gymnastics for a while so that she's only in one physical activity at a time. She also has started girl scouts again and will be in religious ed class soon so she'll be busy enough for a 6 year old.

Elizabeth is a preschooler!  Yes, this week we started 3 year old preschool and she was so excited.  She gets to ride the bus to school for class on Tuesday and Thursday.  She had a little misunderstanding on the first day and Dennis had to come on the bus and carry her off crying but otherwise she seems to be adjusting.  She does want to go daily which is hard to explain on the days she doesn't have school but I'm sure she will get into the routine.  She also just started gymnastics -- or nastics as she calls it.  Her first night was entertaining but she does need to work on waiting her turn and listening to her teachers!  Let's just say she is full of energy!! 

Well, I know this is a school update but I can't finish without giving Luke a bit of my time.  He is now 15 months old and is full of energy.  He took to walking this summer and I think now all he does is run!!  He has a radar for when the girls room is open because he beelines for their stuff.  He is totally into cars and tractors and all that boy stuff as well as little people and the play kitchen.  He does enjoy time at the girls playhouse and has taken a liking to the girls' dolls -- he seems to think there is a baby younger than him around.  He is not talking much with the exception of Mama and some car and cow -- yes, he's good with "M"-- sounds.  We will continue to monitor this to see if he needs to see a speech therapist or not.  At this point, I figure with two older sisters that do all the talking for him, why would need to talk.  He has taken to pointing to things when he wants them and we just keep repeating the word hoping he'll say it.  He is Autumn's buddy.  He is our first child that Autumn really seems to want to hang out. 

Overall, things are crazy in the Hamer household but I wouldn't have it any other way! 

Update on my 40 things...

Okay, so I haven't updated by blog in a while so I thought maybe starting with an update to my 40 things before I'm 40 might be a good place to start.  It looks like I need to be more motivated or I'll have about 30 things to do in February!!  Anyway, here's the update:

Start Date - June 1, 2012
End Date - March 12, 2013

1. Lose 40 pounds (3/40).
2. Complete Katelyn's kindergarten scrapbook pages.
3. Finish our will FINALLY!!
4. Reduce Debt Snowball by 25% (1.2/25).
5. Pay off Mom and Dad (0/1,600).
6. Paint our master bedroom.
7. Tackle our paper clutter.
8. Fully embrace the Flylady process.
9. Take a trip to the apple orchard.
10. Go to Chicago for Christmas time.
11. Spend one dedicated day with each of my children.
12. Take Luke to his first movie.
13. Go on a romantic getaway with Dennis.
14. Go camping for the first time.
15. Bake cookies with the girls.
16. Mend relationship with a family member.
17. Send a hand-written letter to a long lost friend.
18. Go on a girls' weekend get-away
      (Just got back from spending the weekend visiting my friends, Janna and Julia in Virginia. 
       Thanks Becky for letting me tag along!)
19. Read 5 new books (2/5 - I'm actually impressed I've been able to get almost half of this one done.  I'm
      actually enjoying reading again.)
          Where are you now? Mary Higgins Clark-8/3/12
          Harry Potter and the Socerer's Stone-9/2/12
20. Take Luke on his first real zoo trip.
21. Spend a day with my mom.
22. Organize our basement into a spare bedroom and play room for the kids. (Actually have a start on the play room area this past weekend!)
23. Go on a spontaneous, unplanned weekend with my family.
24. Play in the snow with the girls.
25. Save money for a new car.
26. Complete our first Relay for Life.
27. Make at least 5 of our Christmas gifts this year.
28. Set-up family fun night.
29. Help my Girl Scouts earn all their petal badges.
30. Clean my office at work. (I took a new job and my new department is moving the end of October so I
      should be able to get this one done and then just need to keep it clean!!)
31. Add a $1,000 to our emergency savings.
32. De-clutter our house by selling stuff on eBay, garage sale, Half Price books, etc.
      (We have sold books and movies at Half Price books and have a section of the basement for a garage
       sale next spring).
33. Host a dinner party.
34. Teach Katelyn how to crochet.
35. Set-up monthly date night with Dennis. (8/19-The Bourne Legacy & dinner, 9/2-Total Recall)
36. Get Elizabeth to go to bed right away at night. (We are making progress on this one!)
37. Go to church every weekend (12/41-I have missed a couple weeks due to being on vacation).
38. Start a scrapbook for Luke.
39. Do my income taxes by Feb 28th.
40. Send out Christmas cards at Christmas time!!

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Where did June go?

So my sister helped me in early June create this blog and I realized today that I haven't put any posts out here in a while.  As I realize it's July 1st -- I thought maybe an update of the Hamers' activities for the month would be a good idea. 

The first weekend we sent up in Cedar Falls with Grandma and Grandpa Boe, my sister, Sam, my brother-in-law, Zach and my niece, Kaylie.  We ended up doing Luke's 1st birthday pictures -- which I have yet to order!!  Sam and I also tackled doing a banner for our Relay for Life team.  It was fun.  We did "Lending a hand to fight cancer."  Then we did handprints of everyone.  I realized I'm a nervous wreck with my kids getting messy.  All I could think about is my children getting finger paint all over Grandma's house!!

Later that week, Katelyn and I went with our Girl Scout Troop to Build-a-Bear Workshop to do the 100th anniversary Girl Scout bear.  It was a blast.  The girls had a great time.  At one point, we tried recording the Girl Scout Promise on a recorder for some of the girls to put in their bears.  It took probably 15 takes!!!  Luckily it wasn't because the didn't know -- it was because we had to talk faster.  I'm glad we had the chance to do the party and am looking forward to starting up with Girl Scouts again this fall.

That weekend (June 9-10), I was a total Kernel's fan.  Dennis and I went Saturday night to the game with my PEO chapter.  It was a lot of fun to have some us time.  Unfortunately, we didn't sit with the group because Dennis wasn't very comfortable in the seats.  Then Sunday afternoon, we spent the day with Granny Franny, Judy, Ed, Uncle Dave and Aunt Nancy at the Kernel's.  The girls had a good time seeing Mr. Shucks and having root beer floats.  Luke didn't seem to enjoy it as much but it was pretty hot.  The irony was I went again on Monday to the Kernel's for work -- I'm not a baseball fan.

The coming weekend (June 15th) brought on our first Relay for Life for Di's Cancer Crusaders.  I will say I was a bit disappointed with the experience.  We actually were one of the few teams that seemed to actually walk the entire night.  It was bittersweet night because we had a lot of fun with family but there were emotions as we thought of my sister-in-law, Diane and her battle and also thought of our good friend, Judy, and Grandpa Ron -- that the kids and I never had the opportunity to meet.  Dennis has only talked about his dad a handful of times since we met and so I wasn't sure how he was going to do.  He did say that he was emotional when we saw the luminarias that the girls had decorated for Grandpa Ron and thought about how his dad would never meet his grandkids.  Overall, we are very excited to have raised $3,070 in our first Relay.  And with even though we all had sore muscles and feet and lack of sleep it doesn't compare to what others go through with cancer.  It was worth it.

We finished off the weekend with dinner out for Father's Day and our first trip to Orange Leaf frozen yogurt.  The whole family is hooked.  It is awesome.  If you haven't been to one, you have to try it.  It's self-serve frozen yogurt and about 20 different toppings. 

June 21st brought on the start of our annual town celebration, Pork Days.  It's fun but tiresome.  Thursday night, Dennis, the girls and Granny Franny and Grandpa Kenny spent time with the Ring Toss and the Midway.  Elizabeth didn't want to ride any rides but loved this fishing game.  Katelyn on the other hand loved the rides.  She also went down this huge slide all by herself.  While this was going on, I was judge for the talent show again.  I had to run up to Cedar Falls that night to get Luke from my sister's.  He had an all day play date with Kaylie becuase he was running a fever the day before.  They had a lot of fun together and we'll have to do it again.  Elizabeth also participanted in the Little Miss contest.  She didn't win but she got a giant coloring book so she was happy!

Friday came working the beer tent with some fellow Lion's Club members.  Terra and I were doing really well serving up beers until the guys decided they had to get behind and slow us down!  Overall, we had fun.  Saturday we started right away at 10 am with the Kiddie Tractor Pull.  Katelyn didn't participate because she now was running the fever.  Elizabeth did but didn't place.  We spent some time in the Midway in the afternoon and then the kids went back to Grandpa and Grandma Boe's for the night.  After resting for a bit Dennis and I were back to the beer tent.  We did spend some time walking around just the two of us and I think decided we need to make that time for us from now on.  We get busy doing so much we don't enjoy Pork Days. 

The last weekend came and it looked like a busy weekend just getting the house ready before quarter-end.  Well, the laundry is caught up, the groceries bought but the house didn't get as clean as I would hope.  We did take time for some family fun which was great.  Sunday, we went to Coralville to the Iowa's Children Museum.  The kids (including Luke) had a blast.  There was so much for them to do.  We then went to Build-a-Bear Workshop for Elizabeth to get a new bear.  Of course, they are spoiled and E got two outfits and Katelyn got another outfit for her bears.  We finished up the afternoon with cookies and a trip around the carosel.  Katelyn and I went twice, Elizabeth wouldn't do it and Luke and Dennis did it once.  Luke didn't really seem like he loved it so we might want to wait a bit before we do it again.

Overall, June was a busy, fun month.  July will be a bit different as I get busy with work.  But we do have one thing to celebrate - Katelyn is turning six on July 9th.  It's hard to believe six years ago our lives changed so much. We are so blessed.  Wow that was a long blog.  I guess I should do this more frequently!!!  For now, have a good night.

Saturday, June 9, 2012

40 Things to do before I'm 40...

So I mentioned last night that I had a "bucket list" of sorts.  Well, here it is.  I officially started this on June 1st, which happens to be approx. 40 weeks until my birthday.  So it looks like I'm going to have to be very productive!!  I guess I look at this way, even if I do half of these things I've been successful.  So check back time after time and you'll see my progress.

Start Date - June 1, 2012
End Date - March 12, 2013

1.   Lose 40 pounds (3/40).
2.   Complete Katelyn's kindergarten scrapbook pages.
3.   Finish our will FINALLY!!
4.   Reduce Debt Snowball by 25% (1.2/25).
5.   Pay off Mom and Dad (0/1,600).
6.   Paint our master bedroom.
7.   Tackle our paper clutter.
8.   Fully embrace the Flylady process.
9.   Take a trip to the apple orchard.
10.  Go to Chicago for Christmas time.
11.  Spend one dedicated day with each of my children.
12.  Take Luke to his first movie.
13.  Go on a romantic getaway with Dennis.
14.  Go camping for the first time.
15.  Bake cookies with the girls.
16.  Mend relationship with a family member.
17.  Send a hand-written letter to a long lost friend.
18.  Go on a girls' weekend get-away.
19.  Read 5 new books.
20.  Take Luke on his first real zoo trip.
21.  Spend a day with my mom.
22.  Organize our basement into a spare bedroom and play room for the kids.
23.  Go on a spontaneous, unplanned weekend with my family.
24.  Play in the snow with the girls.
25.  Save money for a new car.
26.  Complete our first Relay for Life.
27.  Make at least 5 of our Christmas gifts this year.
28.  Set-up family fun night.
29.  Help my Girl Scouts earn all their petal badges.
30.  Clean my office at work.
31.  Add a $1,000 to our emergency savings.
32.  De-clutter our house by selling stuff on eBay, garage sale, Half Price books, etc.
33.  Host a dinner party.
34.  Teach Katelyn how to crochet.
35.  Set-up monthly date night with Dennis.
36.  Get Elizabeth to go to bed right away at night.
37.  Go to church every weekend (3/41).
38.  Start a scrapbook for Luke.
39.  Do my income taxes by Feb 28th.
40.  Send out Christmas cards at Christmas time!!

Friday, June 8, 2012

TGIF...

I am so glad for this week to be done.  Yesterday we had an appraiser coming to see the how so we can refinance our mortgage.  Well, the Hamers aren't the best at staying on top of housework so we were doing a lot of crisis cleaning to get ready. Dennis ended up having to do the lion's share as I couldn't take time off.  It was a good teaching moment for the girls though because at least Katelyn seems to recognize we need to do better at keeping the house clean.  She's been making her bed in the morning and she tells Elizabeth to pick-up after herself. 

The classic moment of all this was on Wednesday, I came home and the girls said Daddy had a surprise for me.  I even had to be lead to our room with my eyes closed for my surprise.  What was it -- a clean bedroom!!  You see our bedroom seemed to always be the last place that would be clean.  So a lot of times it was a rush to get everything done for company and the bedroom door was closed!!  Now we have a clean room.  There's still some things I need to sort through and find a home for but we can walk in and sleep with some peace!  Here's hoping we can keep the house looking like this.

In addition, to the mad rush to cleaning the house, some good and bad things happened this week.  So let's talk about the good, last night Katelyn and I went to Coral Ridge Mall to for a Girl Scout Build a Bear Party.  You see on top of everything I have going on, I volunteered to be the girl scout leader!!  This was a fun trip.  The girls had a blast and all the parents that went thanked me for coordinating so for the girls.  I look forward to doing more fun things like this in the future.

Now for the bad, brother and his family has been dealing with medical issues for a while now.  My sister-in-law, was diagnosed with breast cancer last March.  She ended up having a double mastectomy in April.  In November, she got sick and they found out that the cancer had spread to her lungs.  She's been on three different kind of chemo and this week found out the tumors have spread to her brain.  I can't even imagine what Diane, Pat and their kids are going through. 

This whole situation has really made me think about my own mortality.  Am I being the best mom and wife possible?  What would I do in her same situation?  Have I told people how much I love and care for them?  How selfish I am for worrying about things like a clean house when Diane is fighting for her life?  I guess it's made me realize you have to be thankful for what you have and cherish the times together.  I have another post I will be putting out here soon.  It's my "40 things before I'm 40" list.  I'm still fine tuning my list because I want to make sure my list was focusing on the right things -- my family, health and happiness. 

So today I leave you with this -- Hug your little ones a little tighter tonight and make sure they know how much you love them!  Bye for now. 

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Welcome to my blog...

So here's my first blog!!  My sister, Sam, was kind enough to help me get started and then she told me -- well write your first blog.  Of course, I realized I didn't know what to write about.  So I decided to wait a bit.  I guess the 1st thing to write about -- why did I decide to set-up a blog?  I'm not 100% sure.  Maybe it's because I'm awful about keeping track of significant events in my children's lives.  I'm not even sure I know where their baby books are at this time.  Maybe it's because I tend to stress myself out and need to use this blog as "therapy".  Maybe it's because I want yet another excuse to sit on my butt and mess with the computer!  It's probably a little bit of all of these. 

The first item is probably the best thing to document.  I really am terrible at tracking important things.  Which is ironic considering for years I've teased my parents and family that I've blocked out my childhood.  To be honest, my 5 year-old Katelyn will remind of things we did just last year and I won't remember.  Forget blocking out my childhood, I think I just have a terrible memory altogether.  So as long as I remember to blog, maybe this will serve as a guide to my life.

Question # 2 - why did I decide to go with Working Mom...Seeking Sanity! as a name.  Well, let me tell you a bit about my life.  My husband, Dennis, and I live in a small town in Eastern Iowa.  We've lived here for the last 8 years and have become more and more involved in the community.  In addition, we now are raising a 1st grader, Katelyn, soon to be preschooler, Elizabeth and a one year old, Luke.  It's amazing how have a child in school exploded our activity calendar, I'm not sure I have a large enough calendar for three school age children!  Along with all of this, I recently was promoted to Financial Analyst Manager with 3 people reporting to me.  I can tell that as much as I wish I had it altogether all the time.  This crazy life is stressful for me.  I will admit that for some reason, I'm very particular about things.  My husband thinks I'm goofy because I need to make a list to clean the house -- and a very specific list!!!  So as I continue to adjust to life with school age children and more work responsibilities, I figured it would be good to have a way to express myself.

Well, this tired mama better wrap things up for tonight.  It's time to sign-off for now.  Good night!!